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You used to own the weight room. Or the job site. Or the pickup game on Saturdays. Then came the promotion, the kids, the back that complains on cold mornings, and the gym became something you will get back to.

You are not the only one.

What the numbers say

US federal guidelines recommend muscle-strengthening activity on at least two days a week. In 2020, the CDC's National Health Interview Survey found that 35.2% of men met that guideline [1].

Look at what happens with age [1]:

  • men 18 to 44: 44.5%
  • men 45 to 64: 29.9%
  • men 65 and older: 22.0%

Even at their best, fewer than half of men are training strength twice a week. After 45, it is closer to three in ten.

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What it does not show

This is survey data: men reporting what they did, which can be generous. It tells us how common strength training is, not why men stop or what it costs them.

Why it matters to you

Nobody notices strength leaving. It does not happen on a single day. It happens in the couch you ask for help moving, the kid you cannot carry up the stairs anymore, the "I'll get back to it" that turns into years.

Getting back to it does not mean getting back to who you were at 22. It means two sessions a week, starting from where you are.

Read the Hers versionLifting things is self-care too

Sources

  1. Heitz E. QuickStats: Percentage of adults aged 18 years and older who met the federal guidelines for muscle-strengthening physical activity, by age group and sex. National Health Interview Survey, United States, 2020. MMWR Morb Mortal Wkly Rep. 2022;71:642. Link